[ well, that's a little better than "no nevermind". still, alec would like for her to get to experience sharing a living space with someone she loves. it's something he values a lot, even more after having lost that privilege when he returned home. ]

If you're not ready to see him with others and you aren't sure he'll be willing to compromise, then yeah. Better to wait it out. Or you could ask him how he feels, and decide together.

[ deciding together would be the road he takes, personally... ]

Comes down to, again, talking to him. [ POINTED LOOK. ]